You are resilient.
And sometimes, even resilience needs company.
I accompany people through loss, change, and transition — with online grief companionship and sessions in Tarifa. Grounded, human, and at your pace.
I believe that most people are resilient enough to carry loss. And still, there are moments when this resilience has been stretched too far.
Grief does not need fixing.
Sometimes it needs a steady hand, a pause, a companion for a small part of the way.
My work creates clear, human spaces for grief support — without pressure, shame, or timelines.
For travellers, vanlifers, and people living between places, I offer online grief companionship and in-person support by the sea in Tarifa.
Photo: Chris Zielecki
About Me
I’m Roxanna — a grief companion and traveller.
Born in 1988, usually somewhere between Hamburg and my buttermilk-yellow van in Spain.
Before becoming a grief companion, I worked for many years in marketing and event management.
I designed experiences, gatherings, and moments that connected people and stayed with them — a little like magic.
Today, I still work with presence and atmosphere — only now the spaces are quieter. More focused.
Spaces that hold what words sometimes can’t.
A personal loss showed me how differently grief can unfold — even within one family.
There is no universal way to grieve. No correct rhythm.
Writing became my entry point.
A way to stay with what had no words yet.
Through this process, I learned that grief is not something to overcome.
It is something to walk alongside.
When I began my professional training in grief accompaniment with Vergiss mein Nie, it felt deeply aligned.
This work gave language to what I had already experienced: that presence, creativity, and gentle attention can support resilience when it feels depleted.
How I found this work
What grief taught me
about resilience
Grief comes in waves — and you can’t outrun them.
But you can learn to surf the big ones and the small ones.
Grief is a journey; it needs space, time, and attention.
Then it stops being the problem — and becomes part of the way forward.
Through my own process, I learned to trust my resilience — to believe that even the hardest moments carry their own rhythm, and that I can meet them with presence instead of fear.
My work combines grounded grief support with creative and embodied tools.
Sometimes that looks like conversation.
Sometimes like silence, movement, or a simple ritual.
I work with Embodiment, Emotional Release, and gentle creative expression help to reconnect body and emotion — not to erase grief, but to integrate it.
My approach
Photo: Julia Federkiel
Grief companionship for life on the move
I live part of the year in my van, Susy — travelling between Denmark and Spain.
Living a vanlife has taught me that home is not a fixed place.
It is a quality of presence.
This understanding flows directly into my work as a grief companion for travellers and nomads.
Wherever you are — online or by the sea — there can be a place to arrive.
When the wind is right, I go kitesurfing.
Movement, balance, rhythm — a reminder that steadiness can exist even while everything moves.
If you’d like to know more or work together, you can start with a free Say Hello call — a short conversation to see if this space feels right for you.